Those XYZs Are Stealing Our Women/Men!

I'm sure you've heard it before:

"Those [insert race] men are stealing our women!"
"Those [insert race] women are stealing our men!"

I'm here to tell you that this is how losers think. What they're really saying is:

"Life is unfair! Wah! Someone help me! I don't want to compete with those [insert race]!"

What you should be thinking is:

"How can I adapt what they are doing to my benefit?"
"If [insert race] men like our women, maybe I should look at [insert race] women."
"If [insert race] women like our men, maybe I should look at [insert race] men."