In my early beta male days with girls, I sought idealistic love - unconditional love.
Even then, I learned that their love was conditional. Since taking the red pill, I've come to better understand the conditions of that love.
Up until now though, I thought the only people who could experience "love" unconditionally were parents with their children, and vice versa.
But then I thought outside of my experience. What if one or both of my parents had abandoned me at a young age? Would I still love them? I doubt it.
Similarly, if I maliciously and seriously harmed one or both of my parents, would they still love me? Nope again.
So poof. Unconditional love doesn't exist.
What does that mean? Get to work - because all love is conditional.
Friday, January 9, 2015
"Russia’s Gold Digger Academy"
Read it on The Daily Beast a few days ago (http://www.thedailybeast.com/articles/2014/11/11/russia-s-gold-digger-academy.html). As a Western man, my first thought was, "these girls are gross!"
But the more I thought about it, the more it made more sense to me - at least in comparison to the life of the average Western slut. Think about it:
Gold-digger girl: sex for money (obviously useful)
Western slut (in her prime): sex for ... gina tingles (useless, but as a feeling, is important to women, especially after the government and/or brainwashed betas provide for her)
In manosphere terms:
Gold-digger girl: hunting for the best betas (providers)
Western slut (in her prime): hunting for the best alphas (aloof assholes)
Of course, I'm not advocating that any man let himself be willingly taken by a gold-digger. I'm just saying that the Western perception that gold-diggers are somehow worse than sluts is wrong.
Heck, once most Western sluts pass their prime, they turn into gold-diggers anyway.
(It'd also be interesting to see a similar article for Western sluts - I'm thinking "America's Alpha Fuck and Beta Buck College").
But the more I thought about it, the more it made more sense to me - at least in comparison to the life of the average Western slut. Think about it:
Gold-digger girl: sex for money (obviously useful)
Western slut (in her prime): sex for ... gina tingles (useless, but as a feeling, is important to women, especially after the government and/or brainwashed betas provide for her)
In manosphere terms:
Gold-digger girl: hunting for the best betas (providers)
Western slut (in her prime): hunting for the best alphas (aloof assholes)
Of course, I'm not advocating that any man let himself be willingly taken by a gold-digger. I'm just saying that the Western perception that gold-diggers are somehow worse than sluts is wrong.
Heck, once most Western sluts pass their prime, they turn into gold-diggers anyway.
(It'd also be interesting to see a similar article for Western sluts - I'm thinking "America's Alpha Fuck and Beta Buck College").
Tuesday, December 23, 2014
Okay, I'll Consider Ukraine Again
A great story that will likely never make it to the Western mainstream. Note the difference in titles:
From ChinaSmack (Eastern viewpoint, includes pictures of said wife): "Chinese Man’s Life with Beautiful Ukrainian Wife Envied" - http://www.chinasmack.com/2014/stories/chinese-mans-life-with-beautiful-ukrainian-wife-envied.html
From BloombergView (Western viewpoint, hides pictures of wife not mentioned in title in link): "China's Lost Generation Finds Itself in Ukraine" - http://www.bloombergview.com/articles/2014-12-15/chinas-lost-generation-finds-itself-in-ukraine
From ChinaSmack (Eastern viewpoint, includes pictures of said wife): "Chinese Man’s Life with Beautiful Ukrainian Wife Envied" - http://www.chinasmack.com/2014/stories/chinese-mans-life-with-beautiful-ukrainian-wife-envied.html
From BloombergView (Western viewpoint, hides pictures of wife not mentioned in title in link): "China's Lost Generation Finds Itself in Ukraine" - http://www.bloombergview.com/articles/2014-12-15/chinas-lost-generation-finds-itself-in-ukraine
Monday, December 22, 2014
Primal Seduction: First Impressions
After reading this book and other materials like it, the big question is, is it worth the high price tag?
The short answer: no.
Don't get me wrong, the book is worth more than nothing. The section on mindsets is its most unique, but the obvious action plan for changing your mindsets is one you likely already know if you've consumed other materials: approaching, and thus using positive reference experiences to change said mindsets.
Also, outside the section on mindsets, the book isn't as thorough as other materials. For instance, if you want to learn Daygame, the Daygame Blueprint video series is an order of magnitude better than what this book offers.
Even the mindsets section isn't that unique. Some of it is similar to what Mark Manson covers in "Models: Attract Women Through Honesty." Given that the writer's website is called AuthenticPUA, I suppose the overlap should have been obvious.
I suppose this gets back to who you should learn Game from. While a relatively young, tall, good-looking white guy (such as the author) can teach you about Game, it's really no surprise that guys without those qualities - but similar results (such as the creators of Daygame Blueprint) - are better teachers.
The short answer: no.
Don't get me wrong, the book is worth more than nothing. The section on mindsets is its most unique, but the obvious action plan for changing your mindsets is one you likely already know if you've consumed other materials: approaching, and thus using positive reference experiences to change said mindsets.
Also, outside the section on mindsets, the book isn't as thorough as other materials. For instance, if you want to learn Daygame, the Daygame Blueprint video series is an order of magnitude better than what this book offers.
Even the mindsets section isn't that unique. Some of it is similar to what Mark Manson covers in "Models: Attract Women Through Honesty." Given that the writer's website is called AuthenticPUA, I suppose the overlap should have been obvious.
I suppose this gets back to who you should learn Game from. While a relatively young, tall, good-looking white guy (such as the author) can teach you about Game, it's really no surprise that guys without those qualities - but similar results (such as the creators of Daygame Blueprint) - are better teachers.
Friday, December 19, 2014
For My Non-Western Readers
For some reason, Westerners (and particularly Americans) are regarded as wealthy by the rest of the world. While it is true that disposable incomes are higher in the West than most of the rest of the world, sadly, most of what Westerners put on is a front (in other words, the wealth you see is actually fake). This American TV commercial puts it best, with some good humor:
Sadly, I can verify from personal experience that the above commercial is truer than one might think. I should know; I pretty much grew up in said neighborhoods. These people seemed to be rich, but would then complain about the increase in gas prices. Obviously, that didn't make sense, since gas is a small portion of most Americans' budgets. But the fact that such a small increase could cause such headaches betrayed how sensitive their budgets really were.
Sadly, I can verify from personal experience that the above commercial is truer than one might think. I should know; I pretty much grew up in said neighborhoods. These people seemed to be rich, but would then complain about the increase in gas prices. Obviously, that didn't make sense, since gas is a small portion of most Americans' budgets. But the fact that such a small increase could cause such headaches betrayed how sensitive their budgets really were.
Thursday, December 18, 2014
Just overheard at work
American 8 female: "Do you have Instagram?"
Bitches always be fishin for beta male orbiters.
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