From commenter YaReally at TheRationalMale.com:
"Personally I think that in the old days a chick had a baby at an early enough age to fulfill her need for crazy emotional impact drama to keep her happy and not craving it, but these days since they don’t want kids till they’re 30+ they fill that voice with the cock carousel, cats, Eat Pray Love adventures, hundreds of hours of Netflix (shows/movies full of emotional ups and downs), fucking guys like me, etc."
Source: http://therationalmale.com/2016/01/14/women-improving-men/
Now it makes sense why women need some drama! It's part of their desire for children!
Sunday, January 17, 2016
Sunday, January 10, 2016
A Great Comment by Rollo Tomassi on His Blog
Lets just say I do recognize a distinct parallel between the French women who gave it up to Nazi occupiers and what’s currently happening with their ‘migrant’ crisis.
But as I’ve stated countless times, Hypergamy is pragmatic. All you’re seeing is the same survival-evolved War Brides dynamic I’ve been writing about for 10 years now:
two books by John Costello; ‘Virtue Under Fire’ and ‘Love, Sex, and War’ in which all too much of the above female psychology manifested itself;
“Of the 5.3 million British infants delivered between 1939 and 1945, over a third were illegitimate – and this wartime phenomenon was not confined to any one section of society. The babies that were born out-of-wedlock belonged to every age group of mother, concluded one social researcher:
Some were adolescent girls who had drifted away from homes which offered neither guidance nor warmth and security. Still others were women with husbands on war service, who had been unable to bear the loneliness of separation. There were decent and serious, superficial and flighty, irresponsible and incorrigible girls among them. There were some who had formed serious attachments and hoped to marry. There were others who had a single lapse, often under the influence of drink. There were, too, the ‘good-time girls’ who thrived on the presence of well-paid servicemen from overseas, and semi-prostitutes with little moral restraint. But for the war many of these girls, whatever their type, would never have had illegitimate children. (pp. 276-277)”
Remember that Hypergamy is rooted in survival-level doubt. Women who chose to breed with, and form convenient emotional connections with, a conquering force were selected-for and lived to pass on their DNA.
The trick of course is having the prescience to side (breed with) with the winning force, and that’s where Hypergamous doubt can be debilitating for women. Hypergamy doesn’t care about nationalism, patriotism or even long term fidelity to the men who might fail in defending a woman from that invading force. (Emphasis mine)
In terms of a woman’s genetic interests, all of those are handicaps.
Sunday, January 3, 2016
Don't Worry If You Don't Know What You'll Do When You Retire
Are you working a regular, 9 to 5 job? How much free time do you have?
Probably not enough.
And definitely not enough to stop and consider what you really want out of life.
That's a revelation I had when I had to answer the same question anyone who retires early gets - "what are you doing with all that free time?"
Solidifying what I want out of life.
Now I know what you're thinking. "But you can do that while you're working too. It doesn't take that much time."
Except I've been there. I've worked a full-time job, ran Game like a part-time job, lifted, ran my errands, and hung out with my friends, leading quite the busy life. There just isn't enough downtime in that to force you to question your existence.
So, don't worry if you don't know what you'll do when you retire. You'll have plenty of time to think about it.
Probably not enough.
And definitely not enough to stop and consider what you really want out of life.
That's a revelation I had when I had to answer the same question anyone who retires early gets - "what are you doing with all that free time?"
Solidifying what I want out of life.
Now I know what you're thinking. "But you can do that while you're working too. It doesn't take that much time."
Except I've been there. I've worked a full-time job, ran Game like a part-time job, lifted, ran my errands, and hung out with my friends, leading quite the busy life. There just isn't enough downtime in that to force you to question your existence.
So, don't worry if you don't know what you'll do when you retire. You'll have plenty of time to think about it.
Sunday, December 6, 2015
Friendly Reminder: Poosy Hibernates As Temps Drop
Of course, I don't mean girls literally hibernate like bears.
What I mean is what I found out running Game in Atlanta.
Folks couple up. More girls give you legitimate boyfriend excuses. More guys you know, and guys on Game forums, talk about LTRs.
College girls also gear up for exams, papers, projects, etc.
Older girls - and college girls with daddy's money - think about a winter vacation. Preferably, to a warmer place with desperate guys, such as Spain, Italy, or Turkey (all known for being sex tourists). And especially if the girls are not lucky or hard-working enough to have locked down a boyfriend.
Note that this also aligns with Game gurus such as Krauser posting when they too go into winter hibernation.
Of course, you can still get some girls during winter. Shoot, I almost SDL'd a Warsaw girl in Sopot near the end of November. (But let's face it, she was there alone with nothing to do - a lucky break for me.)
But, if you're planning a trip, or simply taking breaks from the Game, as Roosh advocates, and Krauser implies, then winter is a good time to stay out of the Game.
Research does indicate that breakups happen before Christmas and Valentine's Day. However, my guess is that these girls just sulk, eat chocolate or ice cream, and get fat until spring rolls around, when they can no longer hide their newly-gained rolls with winter clothing.
What I mean is what I found out running Game in Atlanta.
Folks couple up. More girls give you legitimate boyfriend excuses. More guys you know, and guys on Game forums, talk about LTRs.
College girls also gear up for exams, papers, projects, etc.
Older girls - and college girls with daddy's money - think about a winter vacation. Preferably, to a warmer place with desperate guys, such as Spain, Italy, or Turkey (all known for being sex tourists). And especially if the girls are not lucky or hard-working enough to have locked down a boyfriend.
Note that this also aligns with Game gurus such as Krauser posting when they too go into winter hibernation.
Of course, you can still get some girls during winter. Shoot, I almost SDL'd a Warsaw girl in Sopot near the end of November. (But let's face it, she was there alone with nothing to do - a lucky break for me.)
But, if you're planning a trip, or simply taking breaks from the Game, as Roosh advocates, and Krauser implies, then winter is a good time to stay out of the Game.
Research does indicate that breakups happen before Christmas and Valentine's Day. However, my guess is that these girls just sulk, eat chocolate or ice cream, and get fat until spring rolls around, when they can no longer hide their newly-gained rolls with winter clothing.
Sunday, November 29, 2015
How Running Game in America Helped Me Move Abroad
I know what you're thinking.
Of course running Game in America helped you move abroad! You learned that American women aren't worth it!
While that's true, that's actually not the biggest way that Game helped me move abroad.
When I decided to quit my job and leave the West in July of 2014, a year before I actually did it, I'd been attempting to date in Atlanta for four years.
Despite having met a previous girlfriend through an indirect day approach (before I learned any Game), I started off with online dating. Technology reduced my work in many areas of my life, so why not dating?
As you probably know, that did not pan out anywhere near where I thought it would. As I worked harder at it by improving my profile, using more sites, and sending more messages, I did get a few dates, and even fewer lays, but I was definitely putting more work into it than it was worth.
After two years of that, I stumbled upon "the manosphere" while looking for online dating hacks. One was to use a browser script to automatically "like" every girl in OkCupid's Tinder-like game, thereby uncovering all the girls who "liked" you. It was a small risk (at least in my mind) to try this and the other hacks, since they could get me kicked off. But at that point, I figured I had nothing to lose. So try I did, and they yielded a correspondingly small improvement in my work rate.
However, the results still weren't up to snuff. Thanks to "the manosphere" though, I decided in mid-2013 to give Roosh's "Day Bang" a try (as well as start lifting and eating seriously). At the time, the idea of even indirectly approaching girls serially, to ask them out on a date, was foreign to me. It seemed risky. But again, I figured I had nothing to lose.
The results were definitely better - no more fatties for me - but still not good enough. After a few months, I felt I was wasting tons of time with this indirect approach, so I looked for something else. And that's when I found "Daygame Blueprint" by Daygame.com.
Now here was something even more risky. Instead of hiding my dick for what seemed like an eternity, only to likely be shot down at the end, here we were going to what seemed like a more direct approach. Again, I figured I had nothing to lose.
The results were better still - less time wasted on "no date" girls, so more time to find the "maybe date" and the few "yes date" girls. In the meantime, thanks to Roosh and the guys on his forum, I'd heard that foreign girls in certain parts of the world were better than those in America. I did a few scout trips, and saw the tip of the iceberg of what they were talking about.
After many more months of Gaming as a part-time job, I was fed up with American girls. Move abroad? Now there's a risk. But again, I figured I had nothing to lose.
Here's the key: thanks to "the manosphere," I'd already and inadvertently been progressively taking bigger and bigger risks, through Game. I went from hiding behind a computer screen to meet girls, to jogging after them to "tell them they look nice." So when I made my decision in July of 2014, I was ready to take such a big risk.
Of course running Game in America helped you move abroad! You learned that American women aren't worth it!
While that's true, that's actually not the biggest way that Game helped me move abroad.
When I decided to quit my job and leave the West in July of 2014, a year before I actually did it, I'd been attempting to date in Atlanta for four years.
Despite having met a previous girlfriend through an indirect day approach (before I learned any Game), I started off with online dating. Technology reduced my work in many areas of my life, so why not dating?
As you probably know, that did not pan out anywhere near where I thought it would. As I worked harder at it by improving my profile, using more sites, and sending more messages, I did get a few dates, and even fewer lays, but I was definitely putting more work into it than it was worth.
After two years of that, I stumbled upon "the manosphere" while looking for online dating hacks. One was to use a browser script to automatically "like" every girl in OkCupid's Tinder-like game, thereby uncovering all the girls who "liked" you. It was a small risk (at least in my mind) to try this and the other hacks, since they could get me kicked off. But at that point, I figured I had nothing to lose. So try I did, and they yielded a correspondingly small improvement in my work rate.
However, the results still weren't up to snuff. Thanks to "the manosphere" though, I decided in mid-2013 to give Roosh's "Day Bang" a try (as well as start lifting and eating seriously). At the time, the idea of even indirectly approaching girls serially, to ask them out on a date, was foreign to me. It seemed risky. But again, I figured I had nothing to lose.
The results were definitely better - no more fatties for me - but still not good enough. After a few months, I felt I was wasting tons of time with this indirect approach, so I looked for something else. And that's when I found "Daygame Blueprint" by Daygame.com.
Now here was something even more risky. Instead of hiding my dick for what seemed like an eternity, only to likely be shot down at the end, here we were going to what seemed like a more direct approach. Again, I figured I had nothing to lose.
The results were better still - less time wasted on "no date" girls, so more time to find the "maybe date" and the few "yes date" girls. In the meantime, thanks to Roosh and the guys on his forum, I'd heard that foreign girls in certain parts of the world were better than those in America. I did a few scout trips, and saw the tip of the iceberg of what they were talking about.
After many more months of Gaming as a part-time job, I was fed up with American girls. Move abroad? Now there's a risk. But again, I figured I had nothing to lose.
Here's the key: thanks to "the manosphere," I'd already and inadvertently been progressively taking bigger and bigger risks, through Game. I went from hiding behind a computer screen to meet girls, to jogging after them to "tell them they look nice." So when I made my decision in July of 2014, I was ready to take such a big risk.
Sunday, November 22, 2015
Is Pursuing Happiness Like Pursuing a Cat?
Anyone who's been around cats knows how to pursue them. What you don't do is directly pursue them, since more often than not, they simply run away.
Instead, what you do is you simply "set a trap" for the cat, such that it comes to you. You still have to take action - in this case, "setting the trap" - but you don't go to the extreme of directly chasing the cat.
Coincidentally, one observation I've made about some of the star PUAs in the manosphere is that they don't seem as happy as their star notch counts would suggest. Like directly chasing the cat, it seems directly chasing happiness doesn't work.
Of course, not taking any action to pursue the cat or happiness is less likely to yield results than some pursuit.
I guess in the end, it's all about balance. The Middle Path appears again!
Instead, what you do is you simply "set a trap" for the cat, such that it comes to you. You still have to take action - in this case, "setting the trap" - but you don't go to the extreme of directly chasing the cat.
Coincidentally, one observation I've made about some of the star PUAs in the manosphere is that they don't seem as happy as their star notch counts would suggest. Like directly chasing the cat, it seems directly chasing happiness doesn't work.
Of course, not taking any action to pursue the cat or happiness is less likely to yield results than some pursuit.
I guess in the end, it's all about balance. The Middle Path appears again!
Sunday, November 15, 2015
A Way to Quickly Determine if a Location is Good for Marriage?
A rough idea, but here are some questions you can ask:
1) How many young girls are pushing strollers versus going to school or work?
2) What seems to be the average SMV (sexual market value) of the girls pushing strollers (how hot are they)? What about the girls going to school or work?
3) How many children are young girls walking around with?
1) How many young girls are pushing strollers versus going to school or work?
2) What seems to be the average SMV (sexual market value) of the girls pushing strollers (how hot are they)? What about the girls going to school or work?
3) How many children are young girls walking around with?
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